regarding my friend…?
Question: regarding my friend…?
Well, My best of all Friends has ( I’ve Just found out ) a thing for girls and i really don’t mind. I mean I’m “straight” and i didn’t know there were such words that describe poeple that like the same sex. Infact i knew nothing of the word sex until like couple weeks ago (I’m in grade 8, and i know a lot of people might have all ready knew such a word at like (apparently) 10 or 11 but my family is very hippy like and never talk about anything really. We all love each other very much but love each other in a chilled type of way, and my friends never told me about this stuff either, for example haha, My dad is meant to come with me to the parent interviews but he always makes an excuse saying stuff like “Nahh~ I don’t need to hear the Teachers opinion of you! I know you are awesome already!” haha and my mum can’t come cause she’s on a trip with her brother going around the country on a donation trip thing. I don;t mind, i really like it when it’s quiet haha. and my brother’s are always going out surfing, i Try to join them sometimes but they always like “Nahh~ wait till you get money so you cant buy your very own board.” and stuff. I have a feeling they havent heard of Sharing, lol. anyway –
I knew there were people in the world that like the same sex cause, well i don’t think it’s wrong, so i just assumed it when ever i saw a girl and a girl kissing or a guy and a guy kissing. I had no problem with it. But my friend ( who could basically be like my sister – cause we so much alike haha) only told me about 2 days ago and i could tell it took all her strength to tell me because she looked almost like she was crying. I said it’s alright, i don’t mind it. You will always be awesome and will always be my best friend! i was expecting her to smile broadly like the always did, ut she didn’t she just started crying and ran out the door. My dad wanted to know what happened and i told him that (knowing he porbably would be chilled about it) she just told me she liked girls. he aksed me what i told her and i said i had no problem with it. he didn’t to. but the really strange thing is when i called her up and said I’m really sorry if i said something terrible, but she just started stuttering and said “it isn’t you!” and hung up!
But…when i got back to school, she was hanging out with another girl and they were smiling and laughing just like me and her used to do. The other girl was so engaged in the conversation and my friend was also.Some how, i just felt really jealous in heaps of ways, like “leave her alone, she my friend!” and another way i cant really describe. I chose to let them be, and talk to my friend anoter time, but at every break they would always be hanging out together and talking so much that it seemed like if someone were to go over and say “hey…” she would completely ignore her. but i swear that one time when i walked off, i felt like someone was watching me. I turned to where the arura was coming from and some chick i have never seen before was looking at me like i was a bird and she was a cat! then she signaled me to wait and walked up to me and said Helloo~ i greeted her and we found a place to sit and we were just talking about random stuff and i found out we have lots in common! She was a really cool person! and just in the middle of when we were talking about wanting each other’s pen names and stuff My Best friend came up and just stood there look at the other girl really wierdly, I’m like “hey _______! How ya going 
” she didnt even say hey or anything, all she said was “Beat it.” to my other friend and she just scoffed and waves at me, then walked off. Then my best friend turned towards me and just sighed and smiled really forcefuly and said “_______ I love you, I know this is pretty awkward for you, your brain probably isn’t processing what im saying fast enough, but i just wanted to tell you that i think your really beautiful, happy, funny, comforting and caring. If i could save someone in the apocolypce, i would save you. (she said some other things after that but i can;t remember correctly.) I know you will probably never want to talk to me again but i couldn’t wait any longer.” Then she chuckled and walked off.
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I know what i have written is really long, but i didn’t want any misunderstanding and stuff. and really,
I’m scared, i don’t know what to do. I look normal, I’m pretty much an average aussie high school. Blonde hair, blue eyes, average grades, average life and average friends. Why would she like me? We are the best of friends personally i think this might be a loss of friend ship if this carries on. We’ve know each other since practicaly birth and have been friends since.
What should i do, i don’t know if i love her and if i dont. I researched on abit about “gay
Answer:
Answer by Aoh Oah
okay…. the very second i read about ur friend storming off after she confessed to u, i knew that she likes u…
why does she like u? because u are extraordinary to her… every1 is extraordinary in their own way, sometimes we don’t see how extraordinary we are… but other people might be able to see those qualities that make us special that even we, ourselves can’t see… ur friend has seen those qualities that make u special… that’s why she’s fallen for u…
however, if u aren’t sure what u feel for her, i think u should tell her that u really don’t know much about relationships, whether gay or straight or any kind of relationship because u have never been in a relationship , that u have never fell in love with any1… that the only thing that u know is that she’s ur best friend ever and that u lover her for who she is, but only as a friend… that due to her confession, u m ight be a bit confused, and u might not know how to react to having some1 who’s in love with u, u don’t really know how to handle the situation, but that the one thing u don’t want is to lose her friendship… tell her that u wanna continue being friends, and tell her that her confession has made u a bit confused, but that u still feel like u r straight, and that if ur feelings change, that she will be the first one to know… but that u want her to stay in ur life… always
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Question: What do you think? regarding boyfriend and sex?
my boyfriend and I are in a very good relationship. I would say we’re sexually active. The other day, I was next to him while we were surfing the net over at his place and on his list of website bookmarks were like sex tips. hey, im all cool with that, I like it that a guy would go all out just to pleasure a girl . So i said “ooh, sex tips?” and he said… ” thats old,you know, sometimes you really want to pleasure your lover..make her happy” and he must have been reffering to his relationship with his ex..ugh… curious. is it wrong to feel..somewhat… .whats the word.. …
Not as important as her?
Curious. I don’t know, im not overreacting or anything. just curious. and plus, i am always giving him oral sex, why doesnt he perform on me? what if he did on her? i shave, i clean. so…. hjow should i bring this up with him if it concerns me? without being WAY too straightforward and without bringing up the…….ugh..ex
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Answer by Roy
Leave him for me.